I know I wouldn't have much of appreciation for the post. Still, I published what I feel, just in case I get someone in quite agreement with what I write.
Mention the word FRIENDSHIP and this is what comes to my mind.
When someone sees the same people every day, they wind up becoming part of that person's life. And then they want the person to change. If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.
-Paulo Coelho (The Alchemist)
I don't know how many of you will agree to it, but I find it fairly true.
You have a big enough list of friends (I mean the ones you know and not the ones you add just cuz you had a friend's request from them...) and among them you have a few close friends. Now among these close one's you won’t have more than 2 or 3 (lolz... I doubt even 1) friends who ' like you the way you are ‘!! Most of them are friends with you just because you have certain particular talents , some because you throw party every month ,some because of your popularity, some because of your assets , some because of your gadgets (iPad , iPod , Psp..) and very few are friends because they feel happy being with you .
But what is the solution? You can’t turn your back to everyone. You can’t change yourself for them either. But, I suppose, we rarely notice that we end up the latter way and then it is 'Old Me ' that we miss in ourselves. Yeah, change is always good but the change for good is good, change to fit yourself in aint!!
The one with small friends circle is somehow, every time, considered inferior, as the one lacking fun but you never know, your whole list of friends might be short to match his even one!!
At times I feel, it’s good to be not to be attached too much with anyone, to be a free bird, to not think too much about how so and so friend will feel about this act of mine, to just do what I feel like doing. But at others I think what will it be like - not having a close friend, to be lonely, to have no one to be told as MY friend :( :(. But you see if you’re not attached with anyone, you’re indirectly attached with everyone. You consider everyone as yours: D: D
Argh... Too complicated, aint this ?
Nonetheless as they say.. 'Par har ek friend jaroori hota h!’
Please post your views. I wanna know them!!